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How old do we have to be when we quit being a family?

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    As everyone has seen, my posts address an area that we have been deeply manipulated in, which has caused us all to compete with each other instead of serving each other in complete love. Since our left brain or intellect was made to be the predominate decision maker in our lives these posts I have put up are directed to that part of ourselves which is the ego or intellect. If we all yielded to our higher selves/spirit or right brain the intellect would not get in the way but that is indeed not the case. The original “gods” did a fine job of programing our DNA to preclude our higher self/ spirit which of course made us more controllable by being more susceptible to fear.

    Now that I have stated the obvious, this is why I am writing these various posts as our intellects/ego’s do a fine job of blocking truth to suit our beliefs by coming up with ten thousand different arguments against a truth or ten thousand different issues as to why we cannot do something that we really should be doing. The intellect/ego will tell us why it cannot work, or why it should not work, or why certain conditions are not met, or why it works for others, and then will launch into every fear the mind can conceive to prevent us from moving forward which does nothing but seal our fate as prisoners. So we end up sitting on the wrong side of the fence dreaming of the day when we will be free while the gate is standing wide open in front of us and our spirit/higher self is saying in it’s very small voice to go through it. Any attempt at moving forward is sabotaged by that ever present fear which most people call the devil or what I like to call dah evil.

    Eventually, the hope is that the ego/intellect can be suitably quieted done and reasoned with to the point where we can listen to our higher self/spirit and courageously move forward into light and love. With this in mind I offer YAS (yet another scenario) to consider in your journey from competitive bondage to loving freedom. I would like to just say do it but I know that simply will not work, so here we go one more time!

    I come from a very good family of four brothers and two parents. My dad owned a garage and body shop that we all working in and learned much. We were also raised on a farm and had a lot of fun while working hard. Our family was not wealthy at all but we did not have the tough situations we all know about or have experienced in some families. So in short a good childhood, not perfect, but hey I did not have perfect parents or perfect brothers.

    Now, if my younger brother Chuck needed a cookie from the cabinet he would ask me for it since I was taller and having that big eighteen month advantage I would get it for him. If he needed his shoes tied, I being an expert with at least eighteen months more experience at it , would of course do it for him. This situation is not unfamiliar to anyone in a good family as I am sure you all did the same. What was interesting about this was I never charged my younger brother a price for doing these things for him. The thought never entered my mind or better yet why would it?What reason would I have to charge him for anything since he did not provide for my food, clothing, or shelter. I knew my parents would take care of that and besides he was family. Family members don’t take advantage of each other that way since we have to live with each other.

    Now my question is this……..how old do we have to be before we all quit being a family, since we all know we are all one, (the law of one) and we become competitors? When is the right age where we quit serving each other in love and compete with each other in fear? That is a tough enough question but the even bigger question is how many years of school do we need to learn how to compete with each other and learn how to seize any and all advantages we can get so we can get ahead of our “brother” at his expense, since that is how all profit is made at the expense of another? Our creator made us all one and we are all very much intricately linked to each other and we depend and need each other don’t we?

    Who taught us this behavior and why was it promoted from the earliest days in our schools? I have learned it was the dark cabal with an agenda to keep us afraid of each other and to keep us separate from each other to be filled with the fear of going without out food, clothing, and shelter not to mention a new iPad. So now when are we going to trust that our creator by our higher selves/spirit has in place EVERY mechanism to provide for us and if we know that for sure, instead of just writing books and speaking about it, then we can once again be FREE to love and serve each other again thereby becoming one. As long as we compete with each other we cannot be one and return to being a family.

    I encourage you to consider your ways, drop the sword, leave the gladiator arenas built by the dark cabal called the Illuminati and consider serving each other in love. There is no solution in fighting the dark ones just because the arena is tough. What you resist persist and what you fight you empower. The only way to win is take your power away from them and just walk out of the arena and say it has been great but not that great, give them a Hawaiian good luck sign and depart with joy. If no one is in the arena they have no power to destroy us by dividing us and fighting their battles for their own selfish agendas. Don’t you just hate being a pawn in someone else’s game? I learned in business never play the other man’s game because you will always loose and they will always win. I did five years ago and have not looked back since the first look of seeing the arena in my rear view mirror. I believe your higher self will not take care of you any less or more than mine does me.

    Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me…………

    Looking forward to the family of man being a family again,
    Nicholas Grachanin

  1. #1 Stick
    September 10, 2010 pm30 12:51 am

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  2. #2 BlueCube
    September 10, 2010 pm30 10:41 am

    Well said, Nicholas – can’t wait for the ‘Game Over’ signal to be given.

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