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    For the better part of my adult life I spent most of my waking hours always trying to figure out how to make the whole home, family, and job/business responsibility thing work. It is funny how we spend so much time and energy trying to create a perfect world for ourselves and our loved ones that it truly just becomes pretty consuming of all of our mental, creative, spiritual, and physical energies. Of course why would we do anything less than just that when everything we see, hear, and experience teaches us that is what is important in life and if you do not get there then you are irresponsible and a failure. When I was at work I would be considering my options on how, when, and where to better my career. When I was at home I was always considering how to acquire a better, newer, and bigger home. When I was driving in my vehicle, whether it was a motor home, car, or airplane, I was considering how to acquire a bigger, newer, and nicer vehicle. All in all I spent a lot of time and energy pondering how to “get ahead” and have the American Dream………whatever that is.

    I was sure this was alright and the correct thing to do since I was in good company. Every time I would get together with other pilots or businessmen we spent most of our time relating where the better jobs were or the better investment opportunities were, or new ways of making more money. All this centered around the acquiring of more money in order to be able to spend that money to buy the better life for me and mine. It is funny as I look back on that rat race and wondered why I never stopped for a minute and stepped back to see just how crazy it was to go about it that way. The truth of the matter is that everything that I need someone else has and everything I know how to do someone else needs from me. So if that is all there is to it then why did all of the rest have to come in.

    The only thing that kept me from everything that I wanted was the money and everything that everybody wanted from me was the money. Why didn’t we all just pause and see it so simple and ask ourselves how money got in between all of us and kept us hostages from what we all wanted. Then you add to that the ones that created the money system hold the ultimate control by being able to control all the money which means we become a double slave, a slave to making the money and then a slave to how much is available and what it costs to get it. With this fact in our lives all the time this creates an enormous amount of fear from not having what we dream about and always worrying that the music may stop and this time we won’t have a chair. With all this going on at any given time it leaves little time to consider who we really are and what we really are supposed to be doing.

    When I made that wonderful decision five years and twenty days ago to quit working for money and chose to give to others what I had, that changed everything that I just discussed above. I could not spend anytime whatsoever figuring out how to get a bigger and better home, and newer or nicer vehicle, or a better career any longer because I was no longer working to make money. Those kind of concerns all come in when work is done for the sale of it to make money. I can’t tell you in enough words what a joy it is not to even have to ponder those kind of things anymore. As I stated above if you think about it most everyone spends way too much time thinking about all of this. When I let all of that go I could spend my days concentrating on what it was that others needed from me and how I could get it done for them. All of those other things that we all enjoy came to me but they came in a way that I did not know how would happen, and had no idea when they would come. I had lost all of my power to make things happen by buying what I wanted when I wanted it.

    I always liked the illusion of being in control of my life since that was the only way I could relieve my fear of the future by taking charge of my life as my life was definitely about me. When you lose control you have to admit that you are being guided and lead and that on a true course to help you to become what you really should become and go where you should go. When you can know that and internalize it then the fear slips away being replaced with love. When you get your eyes off of what you want or what you fear and get them on others and what you can do for them then love comes in like a flood and just deeply enriches your life.

    It all just starts with making a decision to let go and let God as some would say it. The lie we tell ourselves, at least the one I told myself, is that if I don’t look out for me that no one else will. Well it all goes back to what I said a few paragraphs ago, that I need what someone has and what I have someone else needs. When you switch over to love the universe brings you both to together through the law of attraction. You attract people to you that need what you have and others are attracted to you because they have what you need. As you can see putting money in the middle of this is an utter waste of time and does nothing but cloud and complicate the simplicity of life. You can only do this though when you have switched to love instead of competition because in competition you attract fear since that system is only won by making all the right moves all the time to be on top of your game.

    So how do your dreams come true in a giving environment? Simply by giving all you can when it is time to give. When I say giving I don’t just mean your time and talent but the very things that we do not need any longer. I used to keep things in my home when I did not need them because they cost a lot of money and who knew I might need them someday again and then you rent the, “You Store It buildings” to store all that stuff. Or I would put them on eBay and give the wheel a turn and hope market forces would give me a good amount of money in return. So consider going through your home, not to have a garage sale, but to find anything that you have not used in six months and GIVE IT AWAY! Not sell it, trade for it, be owed a favor, exchange it, but GIVE IT AWAY. I don’t mean the junk that you don’t want anymore I mean the REAL GOOD STUFF that you don’t use anymore! Just stop and do the math on this when you give the real good stuff away just stop and consider how the law of attraction works and imagine what will come back to you. Remember the only way this works is when you switch to love because until you do FEAR will never allow you to do that. Fear will tell you that you have to sell it since you had to buy it, so I will say it again, GIVE IT AWAY, let go and you will be just fine. Overcome fear with love and in the end you will win and win much bigger than the insanity of keeping score in a commercial world.

    I will tell you this all my needs come when I need them and what I want comes when it should and things that I thought that I wanted prove in time to be things that I either really needed or not and things that I did not thing I needed have come and then I find how much I really needed them. I like living when I don’t have to ponder all those things that consumed me before and can trust that no matter when or where I will always be taken care of. It does make life much simpler and takes all the stress out that I self imposed on me.

    We can all put our old low frequency programing of money and making it behind us and move into the higher frequency of love. The new earth is accepting applications from everyone that wants to live a life of giving, trust, and love. We can create the heaven on earth that we all yearn for by letting go and live life now like we see our new world becoming.

    Let there be peace on earth and we can start today raising ourselves up by raising others up first.

    Nicholas Grachanin

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  1. #1 Stick
    October 21, 2010 pm31 6:10 pm

    **The World After Abundance**
    by John Michael Greer

    It has been nearly four decades now since the limits to industrial civilization’s trajectory of limitless material growth on a limited planet have been clearly visible on the horizon of our future. Over that time, a remarkable paradox has unfolded. The closer we get to the limits to growth, the more those limits impact our daily lives, and the more clearly our current trajectory points toward the brick wall of a difficult future, the less most people in the industrial world seem to be able to imagine any alternative to driving the existing order of things ever onward until the wheels fall off.

    This is as true in many corners of the activist community as it is in the most unregenerate of corporate boardrooms. For most of today’s environmentalists, for example, renewable energy isn’t something that people ought to produce for themselves, unless they happen to be wealthy enough to afford the rooftop PV systems that have become the latest status symbol in suburban neighborhoods on either coast. It’s something that utilities and the government are supposed to produce as fast as possible, so that Americans can keep on using three times as much energy per capita as the average European and twenty times as much as the average Chinese.

    Of course there are alternatives. In the energy crisis of the Seventies, relatively simple conservation and efficiency measures, combined with lifestyle changes, sent world petroleum consumption down by 15% in a single decade and caused comparable drops in other energy sources across the industrial world. Most of these measures went out the window in the final binge of the age of cheap oil that followed, so there’s plenty of low hanging fruit to pluck. That same era saw a great many thoughtful people envision ways that people could lead relatively comfortable and humane lives while consuming a great deal less energy and the products of energy than people in the industrial world do today.

    It can be a troubling experience to turn the pages of Rainbook or The Book of the New Alchemists, to name only two of the better products of that mostly forgotten era, and compare the sweeping view of future possibilities that undergirded their approach to a future of energy and material shortages with the cramped imaginations of the present. It’s even more troubling to notice that you can pick up yellowing copies of most of these books for a couple of dollars each in the used book trade, at a time when their practical advice is more relevant than ever, and their prophecies of what would happen if the road to sustainability was not taken are looking more prescient by the day.

    The irony, and it’s a rich one, is that our collective refusal to follow the lead of those who urged us to learn how to get by with less has not spared us the necessity of doing exactly that. That’s the problem, ultimately, with driving headlong at a brick wall; you can stop by standing on the brake pedal, or you can stop by hitting the wall, but either way, you’re going to stop.

    One way to make sense of the collision between the brittle front end of industrial civilization and the hard surface of nature’s brick wall is to compare the spring of 2010 with the autumn of 2007. Those two seasons had an interesting detail in common. In both cases, the price of oil passed $80 a barrel after a prolonged period of price increases, and in both cases, this was followed by a massive debt crisis. In 2007, largely driven by speculation in the futures market, the price of oil kept on zooming upwards, peaking just south of $150 a barrel before crashing back to earth; so far, at least, there’s no sign of a spike of that sort happening this time, although this is mostly because speculators are focused on other assets these days.

    In 2007, though, the debt crisis also resulted in a dramatic economic downturn, and just now our chances of dodging the same thing this time around do not look good. Here in the US, most measures of general economic activity are faltering where they aren’t plunging – the sole exceptions are those temporarily propped up by an unparalleled explosion of government debt – and unemployment has become so deeply entrenched that what to do about the very large number of Americans who have exhausted the 99 weeks of unemployment benefits current law allows them is becoming a significant political issue. Even the illegal economy is taking a massive hit; a recent NPR story noted that the price of marijuana has dropped so sharply that northern California, where it’s a huge cash crop, is seeing panic selling and sharp economic contraction.

    What’s going on here is precisely what The Limits to Growth warned about in 1973: the costs of continued growth have risen faster than growth itself, and are reaching a level that is forcing the economy to its knees. By “costs,” of course, the authors of The Limits to Growth weren’t talking about money, and neither am I. The costs that matter are energy, resources, and labor; it takes a great deal more of all of these to extract oil from deepwater wells in the Gulf of Mexico or oil sands in Alberta, say, than it used to take to get it from Pennsylvania or Texas, and since offshore drilling and oil sands make up an increasingly large share of what we’ve got left – those wells in Pennsylvania and Texas have been pumped dry, or nearly so – these real, nonmonetary costs have climbed steadily.

    The price of oil in dollars functions here as a workable proxy measure for the real cost of oil production in energy, resources, and materials. The evidence of the last few years suggests that when the price of oil passes $80 a barrel, that’s a sign that the real costs have reached a level high enough that the rest of the economy begins to crack under the strain. Since astronomical levels of debt have become standard practice all through today’s global economy, the ability of marginal borrowers to service their debt is where the cracks showed up first. In the fall of 2007, many of those marginal borrowers were homeowners in the US and UK; this spring, they include entire nations.

    What all this implies, in a single phrase, is that the age of abundance is over. The period from 1945 to 2005 when almost unimaginable amounts of cheap petroleum sloshed through the economies of the world’s industrial nations, and transformed life in those nations almost beyond recognition, still shapes most of our thinking and nearly all of our expectations. Not one significant policy maker or mass media pundit in the industrial world has begun to talk about the impact of the end of the age of abundance; it’s an open question if any of them have grasped how fundamental the changes will be as the new age of post-abundance economics begins to clamp down.

    Most ordinary people in the industrial world, for their part, are sleepwalking through one of history’s major transitions. The issues that concern them are still defined entirely by the calculus of abundance. Most Americans these days, for example, worry about managing a comfortable retirement, paying for increasingly expensive medical care, providing their children with a college education and whatever amenities they consider important. It has not yet entered their darkest dreams that they need to worry about access to such basic necessities as food, clothing and shelter, the fate of local economies and communities shredded by decades of malign neglect, and the rise of serious threats to the survival of constitutional government and the rule of law.

    Even among those who warn that today’s Great Recession could bottom out at a level equal to that reached in the Great Depression, very few have grappled with the consequences of a near-term future in which millions of Americans are living in shantytowns and struggling to find enough to eat every single day. To paraphrase Sinclair Lewis, that did happen here, and it did so at a time when the United States was a net exporter of everything you can think of, and the world’s largest producer and exporter of petroleum to boot. The same scale of economic collapse in a nation that exports very little besides unpayable IOUs, and is the world’s largest consumer and importer of petroleum, could all too easily have results much closer to those of the early 20th century in Central Europe, for example: that is, near-universal impoverishment, food shortages, epidemics, civil wars, and outbreaks of vicious ethnic cleansing, bracketed by two massive wars that both had body counts in the tens of millions.

    Now you’ll notice that this latter does not equate to the total collapse into a Cormac McCarthy future that so many people like to fantasize about these days. I’ve spent years wondering why it is that so many people seem unable to conceive of any future other than business as usual, on the one hand, and extreme doomer porn on the other. Whatever the motives that drive this curious fixation, though, I’ve become convinced that it results in a nearly complete blindness to the very real risks the future is more likely to hold for us. It makes a useful exercise to take current notions about preparing for the future in the survivalist scene, and ask yourself how many of them would have turned out to be useful over the decade or two ahead if someone had pursued exactly those strategies in Poland or Slovakia, let’s say, in the years right before 1914.

    Measure the gap between the real and terrible events of that period, on the one hand, and the fantasies of infinite progress or apocalyptic collapse that so often pass for realistic images of our future, on the other, and you have some sense of the gap that has to be crossed in order to make sense of the world after abundance. One way or another, we will cross that gap; the question is whether any significant number of us will do so in advance, and have time to take constructive actions in response, or whether we’ll all do so purely in retrospect, thinking ruefully of the dollars and hours that went into preparing for an imaginary future while the real one was breathing down our necks.

    I’ve talked at quite some length in essays about the kinds of preparations that will likely help individuals, families, and communities deal with the future of resource shortages, economic implosion, political breakdown, and potential civil war that the missed opportunities and purblind decisions of the last thirty years have made agonizingly likely here in the United States and, with an infinity of local variations, elsewhere in the industrial world. Those points remain crucial; it still makes a great deal of sense to start growing some of your own food, to radically downscale your dependence on complex technological systems, to reduce your energy consumption as far as possible, to free up at least one family member from the money economy for full-time work in the domestic economy, and so on.

    Still, there’s another dimension to all this, and it has to be mentioned, though it’s certain to raise hackles. For the last three centuries, and especially for the last half century or so, it’s become increasingly common to define a good life as one provided with the largest possible selection of material goods and services. That definition has become so completely hardwired into our modern ways of thinking that it can be very hard to see past it. Of course there are certain very basic material needs without which a good life is impossible, but those are a good deal fewer and simpler than contemporary attitudes assume, and once those are provided, material abundance becomes a much more ambivalent blessing than we like to think.

    In a very real sense, this way of thinking mirrors the old joke about the small boy with a hammer who thinks everything is a nail. In an age of unparalleled material abundance, the easy solution for any problem or predicament was to throw material wealth at it. That did solve some problems, but it arguably worsened others, and left the basic predicaments of human existence untouched. Did it really benefit anyone to spend trillions of dollars and the talents of some of our civilization’s brightest minds creating high-end medical treatments to keep the very sick alive and miserable for a few extra months of life, for example, so that we could pretend to ourselves that we had evaded the basic human predicament of the inevitability of death?

    Whatever the answer, the end of the age of abundance draws a line under that experiment. Within not too many years, it’s safe to predict, only the relatively rich will have the dubious privilege of spending the last months of their lives hooked up to complicated life support equipment. The rest of us will end our lives the way our great-grandparents did: at home, more often than not, with family members or maybe a nurse to provide palliative care while our bodies do what they were born to do and shut down. Within not too many years, more broadly, only a very few people anywhere in the world will have the option of trying to escape the core uncertainties and challenges of human existence by chasing round after round of consumer goodies; the rest of us will count ourselves lucky to have our basic material needs securely provided for, and will have to deal with fundamental questions of meaning and value in some less blatantly meretricious way.

    Some of us, in the process, may catch on to the subtle lesson woven into this hard necessity. It’s worth noting that while there’s been plenty of talk about the monasteries of the Dark Ages among people who are aware of the impending decline and fall of our civilization, next to none of it has discussed, much less dealt with, the secret behind the success of monasticism: the deliberate acceptance of extreme material poverty. Quite the contrary; all the plans for lifeboat ecovillages I’ve encountered so far, at least, aim at preserving some semblance of a middle class lifestyle into the indefinite future. That choice puts these projects in the same category as the lavish villas in which the wealthy inhabitants of Roman Britain hoped to ride out their own trajectory of decline and fall: a category mostly notable for its long history of total failure.

    The European Christian monasteries that preserved Roman culture through the Dark Ages did not offer anyone a middle class lifestyle by the standards of their own time, much less those of ours. Neither did the Buddhist monasteries that preserved Heian culture through the Sengoku Jidai, Japan’s bitter age of wars, or the Buddhist and Taoist monasteries that preserved classical Chinese culture through a good half dozen cycles of collapse. Monasteries in all these cases were places people went to be very, very poor. That was the secret of their achievements, because when you reduce your material needs to the absolute minimum, the energy you don’t need to spend maintaining your standard of living can be put to work doing something more useful.

    Now it’s probably too much to hope for that some similar movement might spring into being here and now; we’re a couple of centuries too soon for that. The great age of Christian monasticism in the West didn’t begin until the sixth century CE, by which time the Roman economy of abundance had been gone for so long that nobody even pretended that material wealth was an answer to the human condition. Still, the monastic revolution kickstarted by Benedict of Nursia drew on a long history of Christian monastic ventures; those unfolded in turn from the first tentative communal hermitages of early Christian Egypt; and all these projects, though this is not often mentioned, took part of their inspiration and a good deal of their ethos from the Stoics of Pagan Greece and Rome.

    Movements of the Stoic type are in fact very common in civilizations that have passed the Hubbert peak of their own core resource base. There’s good reason for that. In a contracting economy, it becomes easier to notice that the less you need, the less vulnerable you are to the ups and downs of fortune, and the more you can get done of whatever it is that you happen to want to do. That’s an uncongenial lesson at the best of times, and during times of material abundance you won’t find many people learning it. Still, in the world after abundance, it’s hard to think of a lesson that deserves more careful attention.

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    ~NothingIsFreeWithinTheIllusion777

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